I had the Trader Joe’s Cajun Chicken Alfredo for lunch today, and it was amazing.
After letting it settle in my stomach a little bit, I took Lady with me and went to walk some of it off.
She is the best little sidekick.


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I had the Trader Joe’s Cajun Chicken Alfredo for lunch today, and it was amazing.
After letting it settle in my stomach a little bit, I took Lady with me and went to walk some of it off.
She is the best little sidekick.
I’m testing the way wordpress shares my posts to Instagram.
Are you there, menopause? It’s me, Monique.
It’s me, sitting upright, working on my laptop, and continuing to recover from my eye surgery.
I still can’t see clearly out of my left eye, but I can see enough to type some stuff, and that’s exactly what I am doing.
I swear, a week facedown in bed will have you ready to jump out of your skin, and now that I am upright, I feel compelled to never be lazy again.
Anyway, this is me saying hello from the other side.
I love the way my fingertips feel on my laptop keyboard when my nails are still short from a fresh manicure.
It’s hard to explain, but it’s one of the best feelings to me.
I love keeping my fingernails pretty, shapely, and short. It works best for me.
I woke up extra early this morning because I had to be on camera for an interview with people on the east coast for a story I’m working on for Andscape.
Baby, it’s 9:20 a.m., and I already need a nap.
At least I work from home and didn’t have to go into an office or anything.
I took Lady to the groomer for a bath and a haircut, and now she is walking around here like a brand new bitch.
3:57 a.m.
Lady always tries to turn my middle of the night bathroom trips into a petting session.
She’s like “Hey, I’m awake, and you are awake, so why not rub my belly for a little bit?”
I wrote an op-ed comparing Sarah Jane Comrie to Carolyn Bryant.
It will be live in the morning.
Before the whining starts, I want to be clear that I realize all women are shamed for the tiniest of things that shouldn’t even matter or be anyone else’s business, but as Black women, we are held under a microscope and have every decision, emotion, hairstyle, financial status, education level, number of previous lovers — you name it, we have had it picked apart and thrown in our faces at any given moment.
Black women get shamed for everything
Good morning!
As I have shared in my writing as of late, I have not been in a good place mentally over the last few weeks.
Depression is a monster, and when it takes over, even the smallest of tasks can feel insurmountable. The inability to focus long enough to get anything done is a productivity killer, and for someone like me who works primarily as a freelancer or contract worker, that means it’s an income killer as well.
Continue readingToday I called my mom to ask her a question, and she told me that she was really sad today. I asked her why, and she said the news about the Buffalo shooting had really upset her.
“All those women were older Black women just going for groceries in a store they fought to have in their neighborhood,” she said, her voice cracking.
I tried to soothe her, but what can you say, really?I know it hit home for her because she’s in her 70s. I know the thought occurred to her that it could easily be her in a store one day.
The people in that store were targeted because they were Black. That is horrifying to think about, but it is definitely our American reality.
I’m scared for all of us. You never know where one of these people may show up and decide to pull something like this.
I listened to my mother sob today, the fear in her voice, and there was really nothing I could say to make her feel better.
I told her not to spend her entire day feeling sad, but how do you prevent that when we live in this country
A country where they won’t legislate guns, but they will legislate the private decisions women make with their bodies.I just wanted to give her a hug and tell her it was going to be all right. But we all know that’s a lie. It’s going to get worse.Love your people and hold on to them tight.
Today, a friend informed me that I am quoted in a book they are currently reading called What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About Fat, by Aubrey Gordon. She cited my article I wrote Quantasia Sharpton, the woman who sued Usher for giving her herpes. When her lawsuit was originally reported, people laughed it off and said there was no way Usher would sleep with a fat woman like that. I disagreed.
Go me!
Bring back personal blogging.
I am currently out of office, enjoying the 4/20 holiday in Las Vegas with two of my best girlfriends. There has been lots of room service, lots of sun in front of the pool, and lots of alcoholic beverages.
I have had two pieces publish this week, and a third is going live tomorrow. When you work for yourself, there truly are no “off days.”
In advance of the series’ last episode, I had a chance to speak with series creator Kenya Barris and actors Anthony Anderson, Tracee Ellis Ross and Jenifer Lewis about the impact and the legacy of the show.
Black culture dictates so much of popular culture that for many people who are not Black, those lines can become blurred to the point of erasing its origins. At its best, black-ish was adept at showcasing Black culture in a way that was consumable and understandable for everyone, and Barris says that was intentional.
me, on black-ish
Kenya Barris told me, “I would be a liar if I said the goal wasn’t to get an episode two and a little bit more money in my bank account, but as the show went on, we realized we wanted to talk about things. It got to a point where we realized the show was too important, and we had to stand for something. And it stood for something, because people started trusting us, and we had to talk to them about things other people wouldn’t talk to them about. It became sort of like journalism.”
As you toke up today, please remember that many Black people have been locked up on simple possession charges while white “ganjapreneurs” continue to profit from sales.
I discuss this in my latest for theGrio.
In this episode of Auntie Unfiltered, Bevy Smith and I had a conversation about how our lives got better after age 40.
Auntie Unfiltered, Bevy Smith, and the Joys of Finding Yourself After 40
One of the cooler things I got to do while working at The Root was interviewing Dr. Anthony Fauci about the COVID-19 vaccines.
Dr. Anthony Fauci Speaks to The Root About the COVID-19 Vaccines